improve your dating game

Finding the right woman is no easy task. You go into a bar and find only drunkards that will hop into almost any bed. You go to a café and find only mommies. You go to a club and find drug addicts. Well, you get it, this is called exaggeration. Finding the right woman is actually easy, you just have to go out and check a few ones out and stick to the one that clicks with you. A bar and club is a pretty bad place to start, there are a lot of other guys, the situation is tense and if you start to flirt it might lead to nowhere. After a while of trial and error, and a few good nights of sleep, it’s been obvious that those places are nice to find a woman for a one night stand, but usually both of you don’t want more and you chances are, well maybe not 1 in a million, but closer to 1 in a thousand.

There is such a huge variety of people in a bar, that you will have a hard time finding a match. A better place to start is your grocery store. You can check out the eating habits of a person and look at her lifestyle. It’s fairly easy to find people who know how to take care of themselves and would be a good fit, and the ones who you would rather avoid. Can I hear you say fast-food vs fresh-food? I hope so.

Another great place are Yoga classes or Gym classes that are mostly booked by women. As you may have guessed, most men hate those and don’t have the balls to join a group of women sweating. It provides instant attraction, as you show the woman that you are not afraid to enter the lion’s den and are comfortable around women. Given the fact that there are usually 20 woman for every man entering such a class, your odds increase quite a bit.

Picking up a fun hobby is never wrong, there are plenty of sports or groups that are rarely touched by men, and if you know where to find these spots in your city you will have an easy time meeting women that are sober enough to not puke on your bed before you score a touchdown. Another bonus is, the more women you get to know the more you will get to know their female friends. It’s a circle. Oh you see that sexy beast of a man, and he is even sensible and has this manly aura. Welllll, you gotta work on that though. It’s not just going to a place, it’s learning how to behave. Saying no to a woman on a regular basis, getting to know women and telling them that they make nice friends. Not being to attached and needy. Those are the things that just display your lack of confidence and will decrease your value, no matter where you look. Start to make female friends, they are the best wingmen, they have plenty of female friends and they can be fun to hang out with. Don’t give up your men groups, but your friends will probably look at you in a different way once you bring those 10 hot chicks from the gym class to the party. Just make sure that there is at least one of them that wants you or you will be empty handed and just look like a fool. A likeable fool though. Go out, get to know women, learn how they think and be more of a man that women want instead of projecting an image of a man that you think women want. That is something that usually does not fit together. Otherwise every man who buys a woman a drink or a set of flowers would be the hero in a shiny armor.