The best places for a first date
Now you found a woman that actually wants to go out with you, that wants to feel you and that connects with you, the easiest way to kill all the romance that is going on is to go on a regular date.
Dates are the best way to get rid of a woman, at least when you look at it the old fashioned way. Don’t go out for a cup of coffee or something like that. Don’t bring roses and for whoevers sake, don’t try to win her with approval seeking and brownnosing on the first date! Be yourself, have fun and don’t hesitate to speak your mind or make fun of her, don’t be a jerk, just be a real man.
Don’t go out for a coffee you ask? Where the hell should I go then? Dating is pretty easy, just involve it with your regular every day activities, show the woman that you actually have a life going on. Show her that you are valuable and a fun time to be with. Here are ten everyday activities that are more fun than the awkward atmosphere of a regular date. First of all, get to a place where are other people.
- Play Frisbee in the Park. Now Frisbee is one of those cheap killer games you can play with your buddies and actually use to get a date going with. First of all you will show that you actually know people and just invite your “date” over and make her feel better, on the other hand you are free to do something else afterwards, like get something to eat or a drink.
- Kiting with a real Kite. Not those one line Sissy Kites, a Kite that will show you actually know what you are doing and where you can teach your date how to use it. Be sure you learn it firsthand.
- Go for a walk with your dog, which is in case you like dogs and you have one. Otherwise just go for a walk to wherever you have to do something and ask her to accompany you. You get to talk and in case your date is rather boring you can get away pretty quick.
- Go for a swim at the beach, or in case you don’t have a beach a swimming pool will do. It might be a bit awkward for some people, but if you are naturally swimming in your pastime and it happens to be your hobby, why shouldn’t you?
- You are an artist or not even remotely interested in art? Both is GREAT! Just get a pen and paper and start drawing with your date. It’s actually ok to go for a coffee or a snack, tell her that you have to make some live art studies. Just sit down somewhere and either draw together or draw some other stuff and have fun. You can even draw stick figures and make fun of it.
And the number one of underestimated dating activities is….
- Grocery shopping! Everyone has to do it and it’s a great way to make a few jokes, get stuff that you need and go onto a date that won’t be a first date that’s been done before. Most women get Flowers, are taken out to dinner or invited to drinks, but who has the balls to actually take a woman out to go shopping? Oh and don’t be that man that pays everything, split your bills unless you are rich and used to it!
Dating is actually pretty easy, you just have to see one thing, it’s nothing special and the two people involved are nothing special as well. Learn to take it easy and you will be amazed how easy it is to have fun dates and to go beyond that awkward first date and go for another one.