improve your dating game

Most men are focused on finding a date during the nightlife, but the question is what do you expect to find there? During the nightlife almost everyone wants to have a party and a good time. Drinks are flowing, the music is loud and the atmosphere sparkling, why shouldn’t you go on date hunt here? Because, every woman who goes out at night expects to be approached by some guy, who is probably drunk and unless he is very good looking or got plenty of Game he will probably be rejected. It’s great to have a fun time and party, and you might end up with a girl on your side, but you have to work hard for it. There are better places to start at.

The setting

Let’s look at an average grocery store, you find everything there that already qualifies someone else for a date. You have the healthy foods, you have, depending on your country a liquor area, the fast food, clothes, electronics, magazines, just about everything that can be fun and entertaining. The great part is, you can just go there when you need and if you see someone interesting you can start a conversation.

How to approach

There are many ways to start a conversation, you can for example try to use quotes from famous persons, or you go somewhere and ask for an honest opinion about a product you want to pick. Try to find something easy and light and start from there.

Examples:

• “Hi, I have to ask you for a female opinion, we have this party later and need a few snack, what would you recommend.” In case you get some sort of connection, exchange a few words and have a fun time you can just say, “Well, I gotta go, but you look like fun hanging around with! You should give me your number/email so we can have a cup of tea and chat!” Off you go, and the next day you can send an email with how great that party went and how the snack tip turned out. Just a short mail, maybe 3-5 lines and off you go, add two dates with something you do at a public place where she can join you.
• You slightly bump into their shoppingcart and tell her it is her fault, in a funny and playful way and try to emerge a conversation from that point. Try to offer an agility course when you do whatever sport you do later that day and offer her to join, or simply ask for her email.
• Pick something from the shelves and make involve it in the conversation. Just make sure you make it playful and funny. You don’t want to project a psycho image.

The next steps

The grocery store is just a great place to meet women and you should try to get some conversation started and spark enough emotional connection that you can just get that email, or go for a coffee after the shopping tour, because you need a break. Everything should be playful, fun and you should have a great time. You don’t have to spend a fortune to meet women, there is a pretty good chance that you will find someone interesting around the corner.