NOPE! It sure hell doesn’t do that. The dating industry is good, due to the many men that don’t know how to interact with women and have to learn it step by step.

The modern man should take it like Bruce Lee and ‘Absorb what is useful’. There usually is not one method that works for everyone and the only way to learn is to read, act and make mistakes. Unless you don’t make mistakes you can’t learn. Dating is more of an inner game with yourself than what other people think. You have to learn to play with your mind and to lose the fear of approaching and rejection, learn how you can manipulate yourself into a better way of living and the most important part how to lead an interesting and fun life that you can be proud of. Just do what makes you happy and the positive vibrations will carry over on others. You just have to learn that like most everyday activities learning with books or a coach creates a better learning curve and will lead to a quicker mastery of whatever you want to become.

Leaning how to judge the offers presented to you is a key lesson in life management. There are people who want to do you good, like to teach and see others succeed and then there is the other kind, the people who like to see their pockets fattend by your money. Don’t throw away your hard earned cash at people who don’t know what they are talking about. The first step towards mastering dating and relationships is to master your life, and that won’t happen if you go on 10.000 dates.

The key questions to ask yourself in case you are thinking about joining a program are…

… do those people offer free material?

… can I get my money back?

… how good is their reputation?

… do they offer live coaching?

… are there forums around that could help me improve?

… are there free resources that offer the same amount?

… how much am I willing to pay to master this issue in my life?

… how much am I willing to change my behavoir?

… do I look for a solution of a problem that is rooted somewhere else, can I improve myself first?

… do I know real people who could help me out and show me how to improve? Do I have friends who are skilled in this matter that could help me?

… people who are out there to help others want some money for their time, but their mission is to help and you can see that through their actions and the reactions of the community!