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This is part of dating locations most men did not think about. Men are usually focused on finding a date during the nightlife, but the question is what do you expect to find there? In the nightlife almost everyone wants to party and have a good time.

Drinks flow, the music is exiting and the atmosphere sparkling, why shouldn’t you go on date hunt here? Because, every woman who goes out at night expects to be approached by some guy, who is probably drunk and unless he is very good looking or/and got plenty of Game will probably be rejected. It’s great to have a fun time and party, and you might end up with a girl on your side, but you have to work hard for it. There are better places to start at.

The setting

A Café is a great place to start a conversation. It’s not too loud, people are there to either have a conversation, meet other people, have a cup of coffee, relax, in short, just to spend some good time with too many thought ahead. You will find plenty of couples and people interacting with each other. The advantage is that opposing to a night setting there is not much alcohol involved and you can actually get to know a real person instead of some drunk party affair that you will regret later on.

How to approach

There are many ways to start a conversation in a café, you can try to use quotes from famous persons, or you simply approach people and ask them for a seat at their table to join the conversation. Try to find something easy and light and start from there.

Examples:

• The whole cafe is empty, only 2 beautiful girls sit at one table, at least 4-5 tables are free next to them. “Hi, this whole spot is so crowded, let me sit down at this table.” Grab a chair with a smile and join the conversation. In case they are offended be smart and funny. Look at them in a weird way and say something like, “What you don’t see the other people?” Raising your eyebrow and smiling. Just make them laugh a bit so they know you are a fun time and not afraid to approach them.
• A crowded café is usually an easy place to start a conversation, you just have too look for tables with an empty seat and join them. Be nice, smile and have some fun. Try to join the conversation, just start with a “Hi, it’s more crowded than last summer sale at the black sock grabbling table. You can’t imagine how cheap bankers are… feel like inviting me to a coffee?”

No-No’s at a Café

• Don’t buy a drink to a stranger. It’s simply bad to start a conversation and offer them something for that in return. Rather try to get them to pay your bills.
• Don’t drink alcohol to overcome your approach anxiety, it will backfire in most cases.

The next steps

After approaching someone your main goal should be to either get a phone number or email address. Just have some great conversation and show some genuine interest in some parts of the conversation that will lead to a connection. Don’t rush, but don’t stay to long. It’s usually better to have some nice smalltalk, leave great impression and be the first to leave. Just say “Hey, I got to go, this was a great time, what’s your email so we can repeat this once in a while and we can meet again. You seem to be cool and I imagine you’d make a nice friend.”

There are things to talk about and places you could arrange a date that day if everything is going well. Be creative and just have a good time. It’s not about getting a date, it’s about enjoying what you are doing and getting to know people.

Most men are focused on finding a date during the nightlife, but the question is what do you expect to find there? During the nightlife almost everyone wants to have a party and a good time. Drinks are flowing, the music is loud and the atmosphere sparkling, why shouldn’t you go on date hunt here? Because, every woman who goes out at night expects to be approached by some guy, who is probably drunk and unless he is very good looking or got plenty of Game he will probably be rejected. It’s great to have a fun time and party, and you might end up with a girl on your side, but you have to work hard for it. There are better places to start at.

The setting

Let’s look at an average grocery store, you find everything there that already qualifies someone else for a date. You have the healthy foods, you have, depending on your country a liquor area, the fast food, clothes, electronics, magazines, just about everything that can be fun and entertaining. The great part is, you can just go there when you need and if you see someone interesting you can start a conversation.

How to approach

There are many ways to start a conversation, you can for example try to use quotes from famous persons, or you go somewhere and ask for an honest opinion about a product you want to pick. Try to find something easy and light and start from there.

Examples:

• “Hi, I have to ask you for a female opinion, we have this party later and need a few snack, what would you recommend.” In case you get some sort of connection, exchange a few words and have a fun time you can just say, “Well, I gotta go, but you look like fun hanging around with! You should give me your number/email so we can have a cup of tea and chat!” Off you go, and the next day you can send an email with how great that party went and how the snack tip turned out. Just a short mail, maybe 3-5 lines and off you go, add two dates with something you do at a public place where she can join you.
• You slightly bump into their shoppingcart and tell her it is her fault, in a funny and playful way and try to emerge a conversation from that point. Try to offer an agility course when you do whatever sport you do later that day and offer her to join, or simply ask for her email.
• Pick something from the shelves and make involve it in the conversation. Just make sure you make it playful and funny. You don’t want to project a psycho image.

The next steps

The grocery store is just a great place to meet women and you should try to get some conversation started and spark enough emotional connection that you can just get that email, or go for a coffee after the shopping tour, because you need a break. Everything should be playful, fun and you should have a great time. You don’t have to spend a fortune to meet women, there is a pretty good chance that you will find someone interesting around the corner.