improve your dating game

First of all, you kiss a girl that wants to be kissed.
Second, you kiss her passionatly.

The first thing you want to know is, when is the right time to kiss a girl. You have met her, talked a bit, feel the attraction, and you ask yourself: Should I kiss her? This is usually a good moment to simply do it. She will stop you when she is not ready, or she will do it when she wants to do it. Learn to listen to her words and when she says a no that means no, and when she says no to tease you. There are both ways, and people who do not understand one from the other, should really work on their social skills. There is no question that a no very often means no. Don’t get angry over this. A good place to kiss a girl at the party? You should try to get her off the dancefloor and move her to a corner where it is a bit darker. First of all you change the location and move somewhere together which is a bit of a bounding experience. Second you are moving her out of sight of a lot of people. Naturally girls don’t want to come across as sluts, which is a reason why they prefere being kissed when not everybody can see it. Never push her, never make her feel uncomfortable. Learn to be a pleasure to be around, while you also lern to say no to a woman. So, here you have it. First of all you have to learn how to be around women. You have to be confident and not be bossed around by them, being a good sport and having fun! Then you have to learn how to make a bit of conversation. Add a confident bodylanguage to this and you are well on the way to spark attraction, which will usually happen naturally when you learn to communicate the right way (bodylanguage and word language). And then, after a while, you will learn that kissing a girl is not that hard. Sure, a lot of girls will tell you no, they are not that type of a girl. Yet most girl’s don’t think about this as much about it as guys, as they are not the ones who have to make the first step. Just learn to go with the flow, enjoy yourself and make life for you and the women on your side a lot better. Not by buying her precious gifts or drinks, just by being a man who is attractive and who knows what he wants.

Approaching a woman in a bar is a very bad idea. First of all, you should not approach one unless you already have some game. Rather go to places like a supermarket, mall or yoga classes to start up easy conversations and find women willing to flirt. If you go to a bar there are plenty of men around that are all potential predators and more alpha male than you. So unlesss you have high self-esteem and are confident around women, it’s hard to open. So, you are dead serious? You want to start swimming in shark infested waters? No problem my friend, just get ready to crash and burn a few times until you have the right timing and know how to read the body language and open easily.

1. Don’t wait for a good moment, just approach. The longer you will wait, the harder it will be.
2. Open nicely, you can go for a stupid opener, you can go for an opinion getter, you can do whatever, your intention is to have a good time, make her smile and then, piss her off a little tiny teeny weeny bit. Don’t make her angry, just make her go to a friend cuff, GRRRR or whatever. Show that you are funny and can make a bit of fun of her. You don’t need her approval.
3. Get yourself a wingman. Top Gun Style, you need people who will help you, it’s easier. Just think of the good old rat pack and how they always had the most fun.

Well that’s about it. Approaching is dead simple, you simple go there and open. It’s not so much about the words, your body language and voice tone have to be right, otherwise you will lose. Learning this is something that can be done through a variety of things. Martial arts give more self confidence and remove self-doubts and fear. Dancing lessons can make you more comfortable around women. Success in  the world will give you a higher self opinion, just make sure that you don’t sell yourself with your job unless you want your payroll to be the main attraction factor. Pick up surfing, skateboard, or a different kind of sport that is fun, where you can take pictures of yourself, that is FUN to talk about. If you have to you can depend on cruches such as palm reading or magic tricks. Those things are fun, but most men just fake it till they make it. They are not really interested in it and after inital burst of attraction they don’t have much to offer. Don’t look for a woman to improve your boring life, rather improve your boring life and you will get a woman along the way. And most of the woman who are interesting, sexy and funny happen to be in ohter places as well. Places where you don’t have to fake as much, have easier ways to open and can simply combine your everyday activities with fliritng, dating and having fun with women.

Here are 5 quick tips to approach a woman everywhere you want.

1. Yell some random name, tip her gently on the shoulder from behind, or go over the top like you have seen an old friend, and then, in case you did not get punched in your face, just move on to some line that you thought you know her, and for that surprise she gave you “she is bound to invite you to a café”.
2. Standing at a bus stop, waiting with another sexy lady, just start a conversation about whatever is happening around you. Try something funny that will help passing the time faster.
3. Ask for the way around to some place, if she knows where to go, invite her somewhere. In case she does not know just say, “What? you don’t know where that is? I got to show you, come along.”
4. When you see a woman walking up to you that you are interested in start walking backwards once she you are in front of each other, wait for the reaction and go from there. Done right this can be a great and fun opener.
5. Just say “Hi, nice to meet you. You are a lucky winner! You just won a café and some stimulation conversation, write down your name and number, so we can have some fun later on.” Enjoy yourself.  Just try to have some fun with this one. It’s a killer if you do it right.