How do you approach a woman in a Bar?
Approaching a woman in a bar is a very bad idea. First of all, you should not approach one unless you already have some game. Rather go to places like a supermarket, mall or yoga classes to start up easy conversations and find women willing to flirt. If you go to a bar there are plenty of men around that are all potential predators and more alpha male than you. So unlesss you have high self-esteem and are confident around women, it’s hard to open. So, you are dead serious? You want to start swimming in shark infested waters? No problem my friend, just get ready to crash and burn a few times until you have the right timing and know how to read the body language and open easily.
- Don’t wait for a good moment, just approach. The longer you will wait, the harder it will be.
- Open nicely, you can go for a stupid opener, you can go for an opinion getter, you can do whatever, your intention is to have a good time, make her smile and then, piss her off a little tiny teeny weeny bit. Don’t make her angry, just make her go to a friend cuff, GRRRR or whatever. Show that you are funny and can make a bit of fun of her. You don’t need her approval.
- Get yourself a wingman. Top Gun Style, you need people who will help you, it’s easier. Just think of the good old rat pack and how they always had the most fun.
Well that’s about it. Approaching is dead simple, you simple go there and open. It’s not so much about the words, your body language and voice tone have to be right, otherwise you will lose. Learning this is something that can be done through a variety of things. Martial arts give more self confidence and remove self-doubts and fear. Dancing lessons can make you more comfortable around women. Success in the world will give you a higher self opinion, just make sure that you don’t sell yourself with your job unless you want your payroll to be the main attraction factor. Pick up surfing, skateboard, or a different kind of sport that is fun, where you can take pictures of yourself, that is FUN to talk about. If you have to you can depend on cruches such as palm reading or magic tricks. Those things are fun, but most men just fake it till they make it. They are not really interested in it and after inital burst of attraction they don’t have much to offer. Don’t look for a woman to improve your boring life, rather improve your boring life and you will get a woman along the way. And most of the woman who are interesting, sexy and funny happen to be in ohter places as well. Places where you don’t have to fake as much, have easier ways to open and can simply combine your everyday activities with fliritng, dating and having fun with women.